I want to speak to the fathers right now — to the fathers in pain. I don’t have some great secret to parenting. I’ve read the books. I’ve worked with Dr. James Dobson. I’ve tried to break the cycle I came from, and by God’s grace and power I have. I’ve loved my wife, never cheated on her, never abandoned or abused my kids. I’ve sacrificed, provided, protected. I never used my past as an excuse — and I didn’t repeat it. Best I could, I loved my children, yet we still had problems. But in America