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Who comes first? Mother or wife? At some point, a healthy mother needs to cut the emotional umbilical chord and prepare his son to prioritize another woman. Many mothers have extreme deep low self worth and abandonment issues and use their sons as serrogates to replace the love she never fully received from her father and husband. This creates an emotional inc[censored]st, that damages the boy and makes it impossible for the boy to fully become a man as an adult and create his own healthy family