The only thing disabled about me? My legs. And I’d argue that my physical disability made me more mentally able than I ever was when I had full use of my body. But people don’t get that. They project their fears, their assumptions, their limitations onto me— and then say, “I’m so sorry,” when they find out I’m paralyzed. Sorry for what? Since that day, I’ve created a life with more joy, more impact, and more freedom than I ever had when I could walk. Hard moments? Of course. But let’s be real: I